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š·ļø No Pictures, Please!

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The town of Fujikawaguchiko has had enough.
Theyāre fed up with misbehaving tourists taking over the town to get photo ops of Japanās iconic Mount Fuji.
Theyāre so fed up that local town officials have begun construction of a large black screen on a stretch of sidewalk to block the view of the mountain.
Thatāll show āem!
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In Todayās Issue šļø
Why seniors are looking for help with financial decisions
The āspavingā problem sweeping social media
Are women being underestimated in money circles?
šØ Where Seniors Go for Help Making Financial Decisions

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They say age brings wisdom.
Yet a study of 2,000 Americans ages 64+ say they still donāt have life figured out.
Despite 57% of respondents saying they feel like everyone expects them to always know what to do, thereās often a lack of clarity on how to proceed.
Some findings:
ā¶ļø 17% of respondents say decision-making gets harder as they age
ā¶ļø 67% of respondents say they consult others before making a big decision
And, in our opinion, hereās the most interesting takeaway: Seniors are feeling less confident than ever about financial decisions.
ā¶ļø 31% of respondents consult others before making a large financial purchase
ā¶ļø 35% of respondents seek help from friends and family before making investment decisions
Who are they going to for help in making these decisions?
ā« 44% trust their partner/spouse
ā« 37% consult their adult children
ā« 29% talk with friends.
Now, letās zoom out and think about this from our perspective as advisors.
How should this impact the way we communicate to clients in their late-50s and 60s?
Itās a clear indicator that you canāt engage a client in isolation.
This is why we always encourage advisors to get both spouses on for a Zoom meeting.
Itās why itās important to get email addresses for BOTH partners so that each is receiving communication from you.
Seniors are making decisions with support.
If you only have influence over 50% of that equation, youāre going to have a much lower close rate (and your client retention will take a hit, too).
Headline Roundup
š Affecting Your Clients
š Markets & Economy
š¼ Industry Roundup
š¤ Americans Canāt Stop āSpavingā

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spavĀ·ing | noun | the curious activity of trying to save money by actually spending more money
Spending more to save more has become an all-too common issue for millions of Americans.
Examples include:
Limited-time deals that require you to buy more of something than you were anticipating for a lower āper-unitā cost
Buy-one, get-one deals
Costco-style memberships that require you to buy in bulk
Weāre all victim to these deals from time-to-time.
Sometimes, they make sense. But other times, they actually cause people to spend more money than they anticipated (under the disguise of saving money).
Social media influencers call it spaving ā and itās just another trend in a long line of social media money fads that arenāt always helpful.
ā³Spaving is us justifying our desire to buy more,ā says Brad Klontz, a Boulder, Colorado-based CFP.
š± FinTok Trends Sweeping America
The āspavingā trend is reminiscent of the āgirl mathā trend that has been popularized on TikTok.
The idea behind āgirl mathā is that you break down the price of a purchase by the number of times youāll use that item.
So if youāre buying a luxury car for $75,000, but you plan on driving it every day for at least 6 years (365Ć6), it only costs you $34 per day!
The problem with spaving, girl math, and other FinTok trends is that they donāt actually change the numbers ā they just give people permission to reframe the purchase and feel better about it.
āWe are just constantly spending more than we can afford and then we experience stress related to our financial health,ā Klontz says.
šļø Setting the Record Straight
Weāve been screaming this from the proverbial mountaintop lately, but thereās a huge opportunity online for highly-trained and experienced financial professionals to give trustworthy recommendations and advice.
Hundreds of new 7-figure advisors will be minted over the next several years as a result of committing to platforms like TikTok, YouTube, podcasts, etc.
Will you be one of them?

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š§® By the Numbers
94%
Thatās the percentage of women who believe their economic power is being underestimated.
Case in pointā¦
When asked who benefits most from the āGreat Wealth Transferā ā which will put trillions of dollars in the hands of women over the next few decades, and result in women having the majority of wealth in the US ā just 17% of men said it would be women. (And just 42% of women surveyed said they believed it would be women.)
āļøGood Vibes

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Robert and Margaret Isdale havenāt had many quiet moments in their livesā¦
But theyāve had a lifetime of warm memories and rewarding relationships.
Over the years, the couple ā now in their 80s ā have fostered over 150 children in their home.
They were recently bestowed with a prestigious lifetime achievement award in their town.
āItās really quite humbling,ā Robert, 81, says.
āItās not about us, itās about the kids we look after ā theyāre the important ones.ā
The Isdales say, despite their age, they have no plans to stop fostering anytime soon!
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